so what now?

JFC, I did not want this to become a place to be a whiney bitch. I have a job, I have a husband who worships me, a cat who hogs the bed and a roof over my head. We are relatively debt free (a little credit card debt, but very manageable ). I am just … More so what now?

this and that

Watching last night’s DNC speeches last night left me moved, in tears and so fired UP. I am totally with HRC. Because we cannot afford to have that….thing in the WH. So many others have expressed what I am feeling so use that thing called google. Have been researching franchises, reaching out to people who … More this and that

in the gut

The cafe job goes full time tomorrow. While I’m glad I don’t have to depend on my mom to help us out anymore (and thereby she can get out of sticking her nose in my business), in a way, I feel this is a last resort. Like I’m not good enough for anything else. In … More in the gut

school daze redux?

Let me start off by saying my husband and my mother really don’t see eye to eye. My mom will go to her grave before admitting that I ‘married down’ and she doesn’t approve. But they both had the idea of me looking into the local community colleges or trade schools. As in to take … More school daze redux?

because reasons

I think it’s time. Since my last post, I’ve kept on thinking that. Why not? What have I got to lose? Life is too short, right? Finding a real job that involves me leaving the house on a daily basis is not going anywhere. And I feel like I have to try this. I’m going … More because reasons